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5Sep

“Are you a fat, tall, allergy-prone leader? Blame your siblings.” No this isn’t meant to be a provocative insult, it’s the promotional heading for an article in the New Scientist this month.

“Chance inheritance: The subtle power of birth order” is an article by Lesley Evans Ogden and if you read or subscribe to the New Scientist you can read the full copy here.

Lesley Evans Ogden is a freelance journalist living in Vancouver, Canada with a passion for finding quirky and unique angles on science news.

The abstract reads:

THE psychiatrist Alfred Adler, a contemporary of Sigmund Freud, was convinced that our place among our siblings influences what he termed “style of life”. Eldest children, he argued, are more likely to be neurotic and authoritarian as a result of younger siblings displacing them from their king-of-the-castle position and burdening them with extra responsibilities. Youngest children are spoiled and lack empathy; only middle children are even-tempered and successful, albeit more rebellious and independent, he asserted. Perhaps it was no coincidence that Adler himself was the second child of seven.

His thinking struck a chord. Interest in birth order and its possible consequences grew rapidly in the early 20th century, spawning a new field of research. In the 1980s, however, there was a backlash against the idea, and most of the early studies are now discredited. But in recent years, the pendulum has swung back, with compelling research revealing the importance… That’s all we’re going to get for free folks.

You’ll have to subscribe to the New Scientist to read this in full.

It got me thinking. Are allergies in any way linked to our place in the family? Something we have no control over what-so-ever. In my own family, I’m the bossy one, not quite a leader in every sense and though I’m not fat or tall I am very allergy prone. But am I neurotic and authoritarian? I don’t think so, but I did feel the burden of responsibility and the injustice of fighting many battles only to watch my siblings sail through two and four years before me with new priviliges easily won thanks to my hard work.

Me, my sister and my brother

When we were very young…

Have my brother and sister got away with the allergy fight.

It seems the younger the better.

My sister, the middle one, is very even tempered and pretty successful, NOT rebellious and VERY independent.

However she is also slightly intolerant to dairy and has eczema and asthma with a pretty well treated grass allergy.

My brother on the other hand, the youngest of the three, isn’t really spoilt in the true sense of the word, none of us were really, though he did seem to get away without doing the washing up, chores etc. He does have empathy and is a very sensible, thoughtful chap. He gets away with no allergies at all, the lucky swine.

(Look who isn’t looking at the camera…)

So, is there any truth in this hypothesis? Is the eldest child more likely to have allergies? and why might this be? Is the stress and pressure of being the most responsible child the reason for any of our strange broken IgE related allergic reactions? Do the second, third and younger siblings benefit from better genetics and a more comfortable place in the family hierarchy?

Whether there is any truth in these studies or not, it doesn’t really help us elder, neurotic, bossy allergic adults but it’s fascinating. If it’s true is there any way we can prevent these characteristics from taking over and in particular, stem the increase in allergic first children.

Do you have kids with allergies? Is the eldest more likely to have allergies? Is there any truth in this? and what can we eldest siblings do about it?

  

Ruth

An allergy and health writer and freelance copywriter, Ruth is passionate about helping those with allergies and food intolerances take control, embrace their condition, and learn to live with and love who they are. It can be very lonely finding you have allergies and discovering what helps you can be a life long journey. What works for one person won't work for another, so after trying nearly every allergy treatment under the sun and finding hours of research necessary to keep abreast of what's going on, Ruth started writing her blog, What Allergy? in April 2009. Ruth has life threatening allergies herself to all nuts, all diary, tomatoes and celery and knows first-hand what it's like to have an anaphylactic attack. Voted in the Top 5 UK allergy blogs by Cision UK in 2011, What Allergy is packed full of interesting articles, hints and tips and product reviews which are a must read for anyone with allergies, food intolerances or sensitivities, asthma and eczema. From subjects such as "What is celery allergy?" to "Surviving a holiday abroad with allergies", it's packed with useful and interesting information. You can register free for a weekly newsletter by visiting her website http://whatallergy.com/ and also keep in touch by following her on Facebook and Twitter.

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