This needs a specialist nurse community practitioner to discuss matters with her and help you persuade her that there are treatments which can be instituted.

I agree, it is important that you should fill out a bladder diary which is to record every time you pass urine over three days, for a full 24 hour each day, and do this on consecutive days, measuring the volumes that you void. Then you need to see a doctor where that can be interpreted. If there is ...

Not clear waht you mean by 'valve'
If there is bladder overactivity not responding to drug therapy then other options such as botulinum toxin and sacromodulation can be considered
Need to discuss with a urologist / specialist nurse practitioner

I think that you should seek further medical advice and undergo further treatment with drug therapy and assessment. If necessart if matters do not setle progress onto filling out a freqyency volume chart and urodynamics. It may also be necessary to catheterise more often but please seek medical or s...