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Are you turned on by porn but not by partner?

This is an interesting article about the focus on porn and how this has impacted the erectile function amongst some men-

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style ... 69701.html

Helen

yes i am fascinated by porn stars and love to imitate them but how can i get the power to perform exactly like in bed .

Yes I can be turned on by porn but not by my partner, because he is nearly always under the influence of alcohol, instead of saying nice things (we are in our 70s) loving, no it is always crude also needs to look at his appearance and smell yuk!!! So porn is a bit different.

Because I think porn holds a certain sense of fantasy for men and women alike which they aspiringly hope to transcend to reality. And when it is not achieved by their partners, there's a slight disappointment on that matter.

Porn creates a huge amount of expectations in real life which is not possible. Due to this relationships get ruined, and some men start facing erectile dysfunction because of too much masturbating.