post vasectomie pain.
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TheLaw1984
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post vasectomie pain.
Good, afternoon all,
I'm a 34 year old man who is happily married. But I am currently having some put bluntly performance issues. To share some background I have always taking a long time to climax during sex. It has been difficult with my wife as the idea of a quickie for example is not an option. After having my two sons. My wife and I decided we didn't want anymore children so I opted to have a vasectomie. Everything went well with the operation but now some months later I often get a dull pain in my testies. I tried to ignore it at first but the I found during masterbation and sex that climax is painful. I haven't shared the fact that climax is painful with my wife as it is a sensitive subject with her, she is often disheartened when it takes longer but now because of the pain I can't climax through sex at all. This has destroyed our sex life, my wife feels like it's her fault. I have tried talking over this with here but not sure how to approach it, add into the fact I can't seem to enjoy sex anymore and I'm at a bit of a loss
If anyone has any advice it would be appreciated, I am autistic and have difficulty communicating this problem to my wife, she has had to deal with my socially awkward nature for ten years. I do not want here to have a sexualy awkward man too.
I'm a 34 year old man who is happily married. But I am currently having some put bluntly performance issues. To share some background I have always taking a long time to climax during sex. It has been difficult with my wife as the idea of a quickie for example is not an option. After having my two sons. My wife and I decided we didn't want anymore children so I opted to have a vasectomie. Everything went well with the operation but now some months later I often get a dull pain in my testies. I tried to ignore it at first but the I found during masterbation and sex that climax is painful. I haven't shared the fact that climax is painful with my wife as it is a sensitive subject with her, she is often disheartened when it takes longer but now because of the pain I can't climax through sex at all. This has destroyed our sex life, my wife feels like it's her fault. I have tried talking over this with here but not sure how to approach it, add into the fact I can't seem to enjoy sex anymore and I'm at a bit of a loss
If anyone has any advice it would be appreciated, I am autistic and have difficulty communicating this problem to my wife, she has had to deal with my socially awkward nature for ten years. I do not want here to have a sexualy awkward man too.
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