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In my previous marriage, my ex-wife had a torn cervix, which made intercourse painful for her. As a result, all I could do was masturbate. I'm engaged to a wonderful woman now who can have intercourse, but I'm so used to having to masturbate, I can't achieve orgasm through intercourse. Any ideas how I can fix this?

Hi bws121320,

Thanks for posting on the forum. Unfortunately we are unable to give out specific medical advice but would always suggest you contact your GP if this continues to worry you. They maybe able to help you or refer you to a therapist: https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questi ... rapist-do/

Alternatively you could try calling the national sexual health helpline free on 0300 123 7123. Your call will be treated with sensitivity and in strict confidence. The Sexual Health Helpline is open from 9am to 8pm, Monday to Friday.

Kind regards
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You should try break time because continue to get the problem to so have relaxed for thinking and positively

If you use condom and your wife has allergy to Latex then you need to change the condom none latex.
I had allergy to Latex and had painful sex and took me 10 years to realize it.

bws121320 wrote: ↑

Thu May 14, 2020 5:14 pm

In my previous marriage, my ex-wife had a torn cervix, which made intercourse painful for her. As a result, all I could do was masturbate. I'm engaged to a wonderful woman now who can have intercourse, but I'm so used to having to masturbate, I can't achieve orgasm through intercourse. Any ideas how I can fix this?

Lots of foreplay before putting your penis into her vagina. Semen can make sensitivity in the penis increase.