I'm a 34 yo and for years I've dealt with a loss of sex drive.

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Micahh87
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by Micahh87 on Thu Dec 09, 2021 9:23 pm

I'm a 34 yo and for years I've dealt with a loss of sex drive.

This started in my mid 20s but let me give some background.
I first started dating my girlfriend at 23 and she was my first. At the time I had developed a porn addiction. This was an issues off and on for a few years and I really thought it was the reason I was lacking sexual gumption. Something that always bothered me was I stopped having morning wood very early and even before my girlfriend I wouldn't get hard unless the stimulation was very strong. Time had gone by and I'm no longer watching porn but despite all I've tried the issues getting worse rather than better... I am over weight and out of shape and al currently working on that but still it seams odd because I've got friends who are bigger and still have a sex life. And it's odd because very seldom I'll get in the mood and my girl will look so good but then it's gone and even looking at her naked just doesn't arouse me. I'm hoping you guys might have some advice or stories to help give me hope please.

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by Yuuki Rito on Fri Jan 14, 2022 10:53 am

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I have had a similar situation where i was not getting my morning hood, it was because of Excessive masterbation after stopping masterbation and doing some exercise, i was back to normal. I'm kinda confused in your situation, sexual arousal first starts in mind then our body responds to it. If you are in mood to have sex but you are not getting erection then this can also be Erectile dysfunction.If you are not getting in the mood to have sex, then that's called loss of sexual drive. If we could know what exactly the problem is then we can make things right. You have mentioned that you are dealing with a loss of sex drive and at the same time you have mentioned that you are not getting a proper erection, is that right? Loss of sex drive is usually associated with low libido, there are many factors which could cause this, stress, fatigue, depression, low testosterone etc. Not getting a erection is also a sign of Erectile dysfunction. There are ways to cure it. There are some more details i would like to know so that I can understand and help you. You can private message me if you want, I will be glad to help.

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