ED and fantasies

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j@computerportal.co.uk
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by j@computerportal.co.uk on Sat Oct 01, 2022 9:01 am

ED and fantasies

Hi
I am a carer, i have several chronic illnesses which could prevent erectile function and suffer from fatigue.I am also in my late 50's, taking 10mg of tadalafil daily, I always liked sex and needed sex a stress relief, but now I can not get an erection unless I have sexual fantasies about my wife having sex with another man.We used to be swingers and sleep with other people, but I always liked seeing my wife with another man having sex. She now has physical and mental health problems due to a trauma we suffered in 2012 and swinging is out of the question now.
But I need sex and she is happy to have sex, but I need a solution to my problem, as just thoughts do not always work, but it is all that helps or talk sexy which my wife is not willing to do. Counselling only would work if it is free and online as i live in extremely rural Scotland.
Thanks