low libido
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low libido
im 25 and for the past few months ive had problems with my sex drive, I sometimes struggle to get an erection or feel aroused when im with my partner which is embarrassing. I feel as if its a mental issue rather than physical but I just don't know what to do as im worried it will eventually affect my relationship
- Natasha Anderson
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Re: low libido
Yes, this does sound like a psychological issue, however I'd recommend you visit your GP's to exclude any physical causes. I wonder how your partner feels about this and whether this is already causing a strain on your relationship, perhaps your partner feels you are not attracted to her anymore, perhaps you initiate sex out of feeling guilty or may even avoid intimacy as this could lead to sex, in fear of not getting an erection. Some pharmacological treatments can affect your sexual function, also low mood, stress, relationship issues, and issues rooted in the past can also impact your sex drive. Psychosexual therapy can address these issues.This is not an uncommon complaint, firstly visit your GP as initially suggested, if a physical issue is excluded, then he/she may suggest you see a psychosexual therapist. I'd recommend you attend therapy as a couple, as this will give the therapist better insight into your relationship and how you are approaching sex.
Natasha Anderson
Sexual Health Adviser and Psychosexual Therapist
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Sexual Health Adviser and Psychosexual Therapist
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