Hi there, thanks for your message. First of all, when you get to the fertility clinic, they will do various other tests, examinations etc, to decide what the best treatments will be. There are sometimes other things that can be done, before you get to the stage of IVF.
If you do need to have IVF, your doctor needs to discuss the risks and benefits, before they decide if you should go ahead. Below I have posted the guidance from "NICE" (who publish guidelines about treatments in the UK) about who should receive treatment however I believe that it can vary depending on your particular location and situation, so the best advice would be to ask straight away at the fertility clinic, and explain your concerns, so that you know what to expect.
This is the general guidance as published by NICE (
http://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/cg156/i ... tilisation):
Women aged under 40 years should be offered 3 full cycles of IVF if:
- you have been trying to get pregnant through regular unprotected sexual intercourse for a total of 2 years or
- you are using artificial insemination to conceive and you have not become pregnant after 12 cycles – at least 6 of these cycles should have been using intrauterine insemination.
However, if your tests show that there appears to be no chance of you conceiving naturally and that IVF is the only treatment that is likely to help, you should be referred straightaway for IVF.
Any previous cycles of IVF you have had (including cycles that you have paid for yourself) will count towards the 3 cycles you should be offered by the NHS. This is because the chances of having a baby fall with the number of unsuccessful cycles of IVF.
Women aged 40–42 years should be offered 1 full cycle of IVF if all of the following apply:
- you have been trying to get pregnant through regular unprotected sexual intercourse for a total of 2 years or you have not become pregnant after 12 cycles of artificial insemination (at least 6 of these cycles should have been through intrauterine insemination)
- you have never had IVF treatment before
- your fertility tests show that your ovaries would respond normally to fertility drugs
- you and your doctor have discussed the risks of fertility treatment and pregnancy in women aged 40 years or older.
If your tests show that there appears to be no chance of you conceiving naturally and that IVF is the only treatment that is likely to help, you should be referred straightaway for IVF.
I know this is a bit wordy, so if you have further questions, then let us know. And in addition, I would check with your GP or fertility specialist, as it can vary depending on your location. I wish you all the best, and hope that everything goes well for you and your partner.