I am 73yrs i am still experiencing an oily skin, unsure what to do about it - should i be thankful or try to dry it up?

Yes I can be turned on by porn but not by my partner, because he is nearly always under the influence of alcohol, instead of saying nice things (we are in our 70s) loving, no it is always crude also needs to look at his appearance and smell yuk!!! So porn is a bit different.