No pleasure during sex
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terminatordk
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No pleasure during sex
I recently got a girlfriend, and I've been a virgin up to this point.
Getting it up is no issue, as we are very happy overall, and cuddling is amazing.
When I try to go inside of her it hurts my penis a lot. Once I'm inside of her I instantly get a bit softer. I can tell she enjoys it, but I feel no pleasure except for her moaning, which of course means I must be doing something right. I tried to go fast, slow, all the different angles when spooning. She gave me head a couple of times, but I can't stay erect cause it just does nothing for me. She hasn't said anything bad, but I have no doubt that it must be frustrating for her to some degree.
I told her she was my first, but I don't have the courage to tell her I don't enjoy it.
Is there anything I could do to fix this issue? Generally my tip is very sensitive, and it doesn't feel all that good when it is touched.
TLDR: Feels numb during sex, penis hurts slightly.
Getting it up is no issue, as we are very happy overall, and cuddling is amazing.
When I try to go inside of her it hurts my penis a lot. Once I'm inside of her I instantly get a bit softer. I can tell she enjoys it, but I feel no pleasure except for her moaning, which of course means I must be doing something right. I tried to go fast, slow, all the different angles when spooning. She gave me head a couple of times, but I can't stay erect cause it just does nothing for me. She hasn't said anything bad, but I have no doubt that it must be frustrating for her to some degree.
I told her she was my first, but I don't have the courage to tell her I don't enjoy it.
Is there anything I could do to fix this issue? Generally my tip is very sensitive, and it doesn't feel all that good when it is touched.
TLDR: Feels numb during sex, penis hurts slightly.
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