Masterbation

[JAMS1970]

Hi

I masterbate at least three times a week, is something wrong with me? I have a partner but he doesnt know I do this, Im worried he will think he is not pleasing me

[Natasha Anderson]

Masturbation is perfectly okay, there is nothing wrong with you. Lots of people do it but rarely talk about it, perhaps because it’s personal. Religious and cultural beliefs can impact how a person feels about masturbation. Whilst masturbating you become aware of the areas of your body which feel nice when touched. This learning can be passed onto your partner.

If you're wondering whether your partner masturbates, it's not unusual for a man in a relationship to masturbate; in fact this is perfectly normal. Open discussions with your partner about sex could enhance your sexual relationship with each other. You could show your partner how you like to be touched and vice versa.