This poem is inspired by my stay-at-home-mom experience taking care of Marcie, from the time her eczema started at two weeks old till her first birthday. SAHM faces greater stress, being relatively isolated and bearing the full burden of childcare before spouse returns from work. Furthermore, the stress of taking care of a child with eczema and its causes, treatment and triggers are often misunderstood by others.

I need a friend

One who would listen to my struggles

Who is ready with lots of cuddles

Who stand by me through the hurdles

I need a friend

To understand how helpless I am

To know how hopeless I feel

To feel how joyless I become

I need a friend

To tell me everything I’m doing is right

To not second-guess what I’m doing wrong

To say ‘Yes, Your Stress is Real’

I need a friend

If my friend is God, tell me

Why make my baby suffer

Why let her itch and scratch

Why put her through such trials

Amidst it all

I need a friend

To affirm I’m still a good mom


2 Responses to Poem: I Need A Friend

  1. I love your poem as it really does capture what it’s like to be a mother with a child with eczema. I can really identify with you.

    I do hope you feel you’ve found friends on the blog and on talkeczema too.

    Best wishes

  2. Thanks Deborah, I’ve found other parents as well as people who support and understand eczema on the blog and also on twitter. It’s amazing that I’ve made friends with entrepreneurs behind leading hypoallergenics company, massage therapy clinic, doctors, and the list goes on. Most of them are on eczemablues.com, they’re very friendly and should anyone want to friend us, you’re welcome to chat!

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